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Here are some answers to questions I've been asked...
and that you might be asking yourself. |
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🌸 Why choose a specialist rather than your usual partner?It’s not always easy to share this desire with one’s husband or lover.
The request may be misunderstood, or make him feel uncomfortable or unsure of how to respond.
Delivering a sensual, well-paced erotic spanking requires attentiveness, skill, and experience — a subtle balance of gentleness and firmness.Even with good intentions, a partner may go too far, or struggle to find the right rhythm.
Some women also fear awakening impulses in their companion that they don’t wish to explore.With me, they find a discreet and dedicated space.
A secret garden beyond routine.
A place where they can surrender and speak freely — perhaps more freely than anywhere else.
🌸 What should I wear for the session?
I can spank through almost any clothing.
But when a woman carefully chooses her outfit — sometimes with a hint of daring — the pleasure, the excitement, the intensity of the session is heightened.
We can discuss your preferences beforehand, but here are some suggestions:
🌸 Do you always bring your partner to orgasm solely through spanking?
It took time, attention, and sensitivity to master this art.
Today, yes — it has become my specialty and my personal commitment.
I have developed a method to bring women to orgasm purely through erotic spanking,
without penetration, without toys, through rhythm, touch, and connection alone.
It is my pleasure — and my finest reward.
The request may be misunderstood, or make him feel uncomfortable or unsure of how to respond.
Delivering a sensual, well-paced erotic spanking requires attentiveness, skill, and experience — a subtle balance of gentleness and firmness.Even with good intentions, a partner may go too far, or struggle to find the right rhythm.
Some women also fear awakening impulses in their companion that they don’t wish to explore.With me, they find a discreet and dedicated space.
A secret garden beyond routine.
A place where they can surrender and speak freely — perhaps more freely than anywhere else.
🌸 What should I wear for the session?
I can spank through almost any clothing.
But when a woman carefully chooses her outfit — sometimes with a hint of daring — the pleasure, the excitement, the intensity of the session is heightened.
We can discuss your preferences beforehand, but here are some suggestions:
- A fitted skirt, not too short… the more challenging it is to lift, the more thrilling the gesture becomes.
- Fine, elegant lingerie — lace, satin, delicate textures that awaken the senses.
- Garters or stay-up stockings, leaving the bottom deliciously bare once the panties are lowered.
- A delicate panty… or a thong… or both, to be revealed slowly.
🌸 Do you always bring your partner to orgasm solely through spanking?
It took time, attention, and sensitivity to master this art.
Today, yes — it has become my specialty and my personal commitment.
I have developed a method to bring women to orgasm purely through erotic spanking,
without penetration, without toys, through rhythm, touch, and connection alone.
It is my pleasure — and my finest reward.
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🌸 What is the cost of a session?
There is no fixed rate. At the end of the session, you are free to offer what feels right, based on your means, your experience… and your appreciation. Some begin around 50 euros; others choose to offer more. On average, contributions tend to be around 200 euros. A simple envelope at the end is discreetly appreciated. Online payment is also possible if you prefer. |
🌸 What type of women seek your services?
The diversity always moves me:
ages, cultures, professions, temperaments... there is no typical profile.
Most of the women who come to me are far from any clichés.
They are curious, sensitive, deep — drawn by an inner call, whether long-standing or sudden, toward this unique form of intimate exploration.
🌸 Can any woman come to enjoy spanking?
I believe so. But it cannot be forced — it must be discovered.
The key lies in mental and emotional connection.
I listen, I feel, I adapt.
Experience has taught me to read the rhythms, the silences, the tremors…
and I sincerely believe I can lead almost any woman to find joy in this experience.
Because I love women — all women — more and more.
🌸 Is it painful?
Pain here is never the goal.
It is simply a spice, a contrast to pleasure — carefully measured and guided.
The same gesture can feel sharp or intensely pleasurable, depending on the moment, the trust, the shared energy.
To ensure total comfort, we agree on a safeword: "Red".
If you say it, I stop immediately.
In truth, no woman has ever needed to use it.
But knowing it's there allows for complete freedom — and it is freedom that makes everything possible.
The diversity always moves me:
ages, cultures, professions, temperaments... there is no typical profile.
Most of the women who come to me are far from any clichés.
They are curious, sensitive, deep — drawn by an inner call, whether long-standing or sudden, toward this unique form of intimate exploration.
🌸 Can any woman come to enjoy spanking?
I believe so. But it cannot be forced — it must be discovered.
The key lies in mental and emotional connection.
I listen, I feel, I adapt.
Experience has taught me to read the rhythms, the silences, the tremors…
and I sincerely believe I can lead almost any woman to find joy in this experience.
Because I love women — all women — more and more.
🌸 Is it painful?
Pain here is never the goal.
It is simply a spice, a contrast to pleasure — carefully measured and guided.
The same gesture can feel sharp or intensely pleasurable, depending on the moment, the trust, the shared energy.
To ensure total comfort, we agree on a safeword: "Red".
If you say it, I stop immediately.
In truth, no woman has ever needed to use it.
But knowing it's there allows for complete freedom — and it is freedom that makes everything possible.
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🌸 Can I experience this even if I've never been spanked before?
Of course. Introducing a woman to these sensations for the first time is a special pleasure for me. Every body is different. Every spirit too. I welcome each encounter as if it were the first — with curiosity, attention… and deep respect. |
🌸 Do you use any spanking implements?
Generally, no.
I favor the bare hand — its warmth, its suppleness, its living presence on your skin.
Sometimes, according to your desire, I may improvise with a belt or a branch when outdoors...
But it is rare — and always guided by your wishes.
🌸 Can any woman come to enjoy spanking?
I believe so. But it cannot be forced — it must be discovered.
The key lies in mental and emotional connection.
I listen, I feel, I adapt.
Experience has taught me to read the rhythms, the silences, the tremors…
and I sincerely believe I can lead almost any woman to find joy in this experience.
Because I love women — all women — more and more.
🌸 Have you ever been spanked yourself?
No.
The idea of surrendering across a woman’s lap is intriguing, perhaps even tempting...
but the desire has never been strong enough to act on it.
And frankly, I believe one does not need to have received a spanking to give one properly.
What matters most is deep sensitivity — to the partner's reactions, to her emotions, to her pleasure.
Moreover, the style of erotic spanking I offer is designed specifically for the feminine body — for its resonances, its depths, its mysteries.
Generally, no.
I favor the bare hand — its warmth, its suppleness, its living presence on your skin.
Sometimes, according to your desire, I may improvise with a belt or a branch when outdoors...
But it is rare — and always guided by your wishes.
🌸 Can any woman come to enjoy spanking?
I believe so. But it cannot be forced — it must be discovered.
The key lies in mental and emotional connection.
I listen, I feel, I adapt.
Experience has taught me to read the rhythms, the silences, the tremors…
and I sincerely believe I can lead almost any woman to find joy in this experience.
Because I love women — all women — more and more.
🌸 Have you ever been spanked yourself?
No.
The idea of surrendering across a woman’s lap is intriguing, perhaps even tempting...
but the desire has never been strong enough to act on it.
And frankly, I believe one does not need to have received a spanking to give one properly.
What matters most is deep sensitivity — to the partner's reactions, to her emotions, to her pleasure.
Moreover, the style of erotic spanking I offer is designed specifically for the feminine body — for its resonances, its depths, its mysteries.
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🌸 How far in advance should I book?
Every woman moves at her own rhythm. Some seek an immediate rendezvous, fueled by the urgency of the moment. Others prefer to plan several days ahead, savoring the slow build-up of anticipation. In all cases, I always do my best to accommodate your wishes, depending on my schedule and travel availability. Just express your desire... and we will find the perfect moment together. |
🌸 Can my husband or lover attend the session?
Yes, of course — provided he remains a discreet observer.
My attention will remain entirely focused on you and on the rhythm of the session.
Photos may be taken if you wish, with the understanding they must remain private.
(And I must admit… receiving a private photo always brings a certain delight.)
🌸 Do you accept trans or cross-dressing clients?
I exclusively offer my services to cisgender women.
This is not a judgment — simply a matter of experience and connection.
I once conducted a session with a transgender woman, and it was a difficult, unsatisfying experience for both sides.
🌸 Can I bring a friend?
With great pleasure.
Your friend may simply observe, or join if she feels the desire.
I can even imagine special games for the three of us — alternating spankings, synchronized rhythms, shared sensations…
many delightful variations to enrich the experience.
🌸 What is the minimum age to book your services?
My sessions are strictly reserved for adults. If you appear close to the legal age, I may discreetly ask for an ID to confirm. Thank you for your understanding.
🌸 I'm a feminist, and spanking fantasies seem to contradict my beliefs. What do you think?
Authors like Anne Rice or Jillian Keenan have beautifully expressed that there’s no contradiction between feminism and the expression of desire — as long as it takes place in a safe, respectful, and consensual setting.
Erotic spanking is not about submission or control. It’s about sensation, connection, and trust.
I consider myself a feminist.
My entire practice has been shaped by listening closely to women — to their needs, their boundaries, their fantasies.
I don’t spank to punish.
I spank to bring pleasure.
And that makes all the difference. (more here)
Yes, of course — provided he remains a discreet observer.
My attention will remain entirely focused on you and on the rhythm of the session.
Photos may be taken if you wish, with the understanding they must remain private.
(And I must admit… receiving a private photo always brings a certain delight.)
🌸 Do you accept trans or cross-dressing clients?
I exclusively offer my services to cisgender women.
This is not a judgment — simply a matter of experience and connection.
I once conducted a session with a transgender woman, and it was a difficult, unsatisfying experience for both sides.
🌸 Can I bring a friend?
With great pleasure.
Your friend may simply observe, or join if she feels the desire.
I can even imagine special games for the three of us — alternating spankings, synchronized rhythms, shared sensations…
many delightful variations to enrich the experience.
🌸 What is the minimum age to book your services?
My sessions are strictly reserved for adults. If you appear close to the legal age, I may discreetly ask for an ID to confirm. Thank you for your understanding.
🌸 I'm a feminist, and spanking fantasies seem to contradict my beliefs. What do you think?
Authors like Anne Rice or Jillian Keenan have beautifully expressed that there’s no contradiction between feminism and the expression of desire — as long as it takes place in a safe, respectful, and consensual setting.
Erotic spanking is not about submission or control. It’s about sensation, connection, and trust.
I consider myself a feminist.
My entire practice has been shaped by listening closely to women — to their needs, their boundaries, their fantasies.
I don’t spank to punish.
I spank to bring pleasure.
And that makes all the difference. (more here)
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If another question crosses your mind, do not hesitate to reach out.
I always answer with great pleasure. |
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